Engagement

Since 1970 engagement has not been a legally binding contract so you can't sue for damages if it is broken off. There is usually no legal duty to return the ring, unless agreed to.

Marriage

• No one can be forced to marry against their wishes.
• Both members of the couple must be aged 16 or over.
• You can't already be married (see bigamy).
• Can't be too closely related
• Under 18s must gain their parent's or guardian's written consent, otherwise it is a criminal offence, although the marriage would still be valid.
• Marriages involving under-16s are not recognised by law.
• You need at least two witnesses to sign register on the day.

Changing your name

Although many women in Britain change their surname when they marry, they don't have to. Women can keep their own family name, or join the two in a double-barrelled surname such as Smith-Jones.

Bigamy

Being married to more than one person at one time is only recognised in England and Wales if it took place in a country which allows marriages of this kind and both were legally free to marry in this way.

Same-sex marriages

Same-sex couples are now able to enter into a civil partnership by registering a formal commitment to one another. This gives them legal recognition for their relationship, which means they have almost exactly the same rights and responsibilities as married couples.

The ceremony

You can get married by a civil ceremony or a religious ceremony. In both cases, the following legal requirements must be met:

• the marriage must be conducted by a person or in the presence of a person authorised to register marriages in the district;
• the marriage must be entered in the marriage register and signed by both parties, two witnesses, the person who conducted the ceremony and, if that person is not authorised to register marriages, the person who is registering the marriage.

Civil - performed by a Registrar

Can take place in a Registry Office or any other premises approved for marriage by a local authority (a stately home, theatre, zoo etc). A Government White Paper seems set to change this, so that instead of the venue being licensed for marriage, it is the person conducting the ceremony who must be licensed.

Religious - performed by a Minister of the church

Almost anyone can have an Anglican marriage, however exceptions include divorcees whose exes are still alive. It can take place in any church or chapel of the Church of England or Church of Wales, or an Armed Forces Chapel, without the need to involve a Registrar.

They can also take place in other places of worship, but only if they are within the Registration District where you or your spouse live, and then only with the involvement of a Registrar.

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